When you're expecting another baby, the story unfolding isn’t just about the little one growing inside you — it’s also about the big sibling learning to hold space in this new chapter.
As a photographer, doula, and mama-centered storyteller, I always make room for siblings to be seen and celebrated during maternity sessions. It’s not just about a growing belly — it’s about a growing family.
Here are five meaningful ways I love to include older siblings in maternity photos, so they feel just as special in the story you're telling.
1. Let Them Take the Lead (At Least for a Little While)
Kids love when they get to “be in charge.” Sometimes, I’ll hand the session over to them for a few minutes — letting them direct a pose, make mom laugh, or decide where we shoot next. Giving them that sense of ownership helps them feel included rather than sidelined.
These moments often turn into the most joyful, unguarded images.
2. Invite Them to Interact with the Belly
Whether it’s a kiss, a whisper, or a hand resting gently on your bump — those small gestures capture the beginning of a sibling bond that’s just starting to bloom.
I gently guide these moments while still keeping them natural. The goal isn’t to pose, but to witness connection.
3. Celebrate Their Role as "Big"
Bringing along something that symbolizes their new role — a “big brother” book, a tiny pair of baby shoes they get to hold, or a letter to the baby — can turn a simple photo into a memory they'll look back on with pride.
This isn't about props. It’s about storytelling.
4. Carve Out One-on-One Time
I always make space during your session for solo shots of just you and your older child. These are quiet, intimate moments that honor your current bond — before it shifts and expands to include another little love.
These images often become favorites because they freeze a fleeting version of your relationship that deserves to be remembered.
5. Let Them Be Little
Some of the best photos come from letting siblings be exactly who they are. Whether that’s climbing on the bed, picking flowers, or tickling your belly — don’t worry if it doesn’t look "perfect." What matters is that it’s real.
And real is what they'll remember.
Final Thoughts
Including older siblings in your maternity session isn’t just about involving them — it’s about inviting them in. It’s a chance to help them feel valued, seen, and part of the story you’re ALL stepping into.
If you’re expecting and wondering how a session like this might look in your home or favorite outdoor space, I’d love to show you what’s possible. Every family dynamic is different, and your story deserves to be told honestly — with grace, beauty, and a little bit of magic.
📸 Interested in planning a maternity session with sibling storytelling at the heart of it? [Reach out here] to start the conversation — I’d love to help craft something meaningful for your growing family.
